FINAL PAPER OUTLINE 6
Thepaper’s content is a discussion of the vital elements ofinterpersonal communication that would lead to healthy intimaterelationships. Considering that the couple is newly engaged, theyneed to understand the basic principles of inter-personalcommunication, especially for intimate relationships(Derlega, 2013).After understanding the principles, they also need to know theimportance of interpersonal communication in a relationship. Othersaspects of the interpersonal communication to be discussed are:
a) The components of inter-personal communication
b) Communications as an action
c) Communication as a form of interaction
d) Communication as an essential transaction in the relationshipbusiness
f) Understanding relationship conflict and adjustment
g) Theimportance of appropriate self-disclosure
Interpersonalcommunication essentially holds any relationship together. Througheffective inter-personal communication, couples can reach theiremotional and intimacy goals hence, they must understand essentialelements of interpersonal communication.
3. Thebody of the essay
Thebody of the essay contains an explanation of several concepts ofinter-personal communication that the newly engaged couple needs tounderstand for their relationship to thrive. The concepts that willcritically discuss are:
Components of interpersonal communication
Basicallythe advice will entail explain some of the myths that surround thecomponents on interpersonal communication, and then debunk them withfacts. The couple should know the components of essential components,which include (Bevan & Sole, 2014):
how interpersonal communication connects the couples to each other
the complexity of interpersonal communication
the rules the govern interpersonal communication
the content, relationship, and metacommunication dimensions of interpersonal communication
Content- how information should always be framed when addressing a partner regardless of the circumstances
Relationship- The cues, attitudes, emotions, power, and control that any message should have for the partner
Metacommunication- Explain how and why the content and relationship dimensions should not contradict each other in regard to the partner.
Explain the principle of irreversibility of interpersonal communication.
Define and explain self-disclosure to the couple
Address how self-disclosure affects issues such as building trust and commitment, and maintain on-going intimacy.
Essential actions in communication
Explainactions such as non-verbal cues, role of the written word, and whatto do when the couples are a long distance apart.
Communication as an interaction tool
The couple should use communication as a basis to understand each other more
Explain to the couples the meaning of emotional contagion in the relationship and how effective communication can facilitate it.
Technologically assisted communication modes
Understanding relationship conflict and adjustment
Underrelationship conflict and adjustment the most important concepts thatthe couple should understand are(Brehm, 2012):
The ideal contexts of aligning communication for the partner
The preferred level of inter-personal communication
Specific aspects that the couple should to be effective communicators such as affection expression, cohesion, consensus, and dyadic satisfaction
Communication as the most essential emotional tool in a relationship
How to discuss emotions with each other as couples
The impact of culture on the emotional expression in communication
Provide advice on how the couple can resolve emotional communication breakdowns between them
Theconclusion includes the restatement of the thesis statement byemphasizing the fact that all the fundamental aspects discussed inthe body can lead to a healthy relationship for the couple.
Brehm,S. S. (2012). Intimaterelationships .Mcgraw-Hill Book Company.
Bevan,J. L., & Sole, K. (2014). Making connections: Understandinginterpersonal communication (2nd ed.). San Diego, CA: BridgepointEducation, Inc.
Derlega,V. J. (Ed.). (2013). Communication,intimacy, and close relationships.Elsevier.